My approach to handling social interactions

 

During social interactions, it's quite easy to create an awkward conversation, especially in one-on-one situations. I believe this discomfort stems from my mindset because I tend to impose unnecessary pressure on myself when I'm supposed to engage in a conversation with others. This pressure leads to constant worries like, "What should I say?" or "What if we both go silent?" These unnecessary thoughts occupy my mind and ultimately make our conversation awkward.

However, I've recently realized that I can adapt and thrive in various social interactions. I've discovered a simple yet effective solution: I don't need to overthink what to say in advance. Instead, I focus on actively listening to what others are saying or what I've observed in my surroundings. After reflecting on these cues, I strive to formulate my own thoughts and opinions in a thoughtful manner, and then I express them. This is all I need to do. I must uphold my own standards and remain composed regardless of my surroundings. As long as I can convey my genuine thoughts logically and prudently, even if it may lead to some awkwardness, I must be comfortable with it. My goal is not to say what others want to hear but to express what's on my mind, and that's sufficient.

So, my approach to handling any social interaction is to develop my own thoughts and share them when necessary. I don't need to worry about what to say in advance. At the same time, I must remember that every word I utter should be graceful and considerate, just as the biblical quote from Colossians 4:6 suggests. My words should come from a place of boldness, kindness, and love, rather than from a timid or overly eager desire to please others.